Work with Me

Getting to Yes with The One

An invitation to work with me (and your destiny) to elevate your most important relationship 

Is this you?

You are a fun, successful professional who has built at least 60% of a life you love.
You have 1) already identified a potential partner, and 2) got privileged access to their personal life
to the point where you are ready to take this relationship to the next level,
whether that be getting into a romance, or long term committed partnership, or a marriage proposal.

Then this offer is for you.

In 1 month, you will get to a mutual “Hell Yes, Let’s 1) Do This Together and/or 2) Be That For Each Other” for however long you both decide.
or“No. We are not a good fit”.

HOW DO YOU WIN (CONCEPTUALLY) 

  1. Clarify & crystallize your Vision of Togetherness.

This is the biggest thing I’ve found that most increases the chance of a Mutual Hell Yes. 

Because people say Yes to being together when it makes sense, but people only say Hell Yes when it truly resonates. It’s a matter of both logic & energetics.     

I have developed and refined the clarity process, which we can use to clarify 1) what you want to do together, and 2) who do you want to be with & for each other and 3) the real Why.     I will do some alignment tests to make sure what you say you want matches what you actually want. 

Then we will crystallize the vision into a poetic phrase, or a vivid image that captures the essence of your togetherness. I will give you feedback on whether it truly resonates.

  1. Letting Go of anything that is Not That. 

Once you’ve got a clear and resonant vision, what’s stopping you from realizing it? 

Your Old Useless Reactions (YOURs)

In order to get to Mutual Hell Yes, you need to let all of YOURs go. 

I have created a unique method to release them all. The goal here is to work with you to create your own most effective way of letting go of what no longer serves anymore, be it doubt, self-sabotage, fear, clinginess or anything else in the way. Ideally, whenever YOURs creeps up again, you can simply declare “I am done”.

Enough said. 

  1. Actually Asking for It

This is a practice I adapted and refined from Sarah Mccrum’s  “Making Beautiful Request”. We will practice articulating & saying out loud what you want in a way that makes you bloom and smile from inside out. We can also discuss matters of timing, i.e how do you know when the time is right to say what? 

  1. Taking Leaps of Faith

This is the 99% to 100% part. You’ve done everything. You must take a leap of faith. We practice leaping into the unknown together. 

  1. Extra bits

I may also share fresh insights on how to set up the occasion, frame the conversation, prepare your nervous system, etc…  mostly how to relax and enjoy this whole thing. It is your life, your love, and it doesn’t have to be that challenging.

Betting with me is flexible enough that you can choose whichever aspect to focus on. I will give my guidance on what else may be missing. I want you to win 😉

HOW IT WORKS, LOGISTICALLY

1) you’ll make a Commitment deposit via DM me on FB.

HOW IT WORKS, LOGISTICALLY

You’ll make a Commitment deposit via DM me on FB.

🥇SCENARIO 1: in 30 days, if you get to a mutual “Hell Yes, Let’s 1) Do This Together and/or 2) Be That For Each Other” for however long you both decide, you’ll get your deposit back.

How do I know you really won? You and your The One together give me a call to CELEBRATE 🥳

Then, if you feel generous and happy for winning, you can choose to gift me a portion, or the whole amount as a thank you 😉

🥲SCENARIO 2: If you get a definite “No, I cannot do that and/or be that with you”,

I will return you the deposit.

Yes, you hear it right.

It might be an ending, a farewell of that relationship. I will be here as you grieve the loss of a possibility. And you move on, clearer about what you truly want in a relationship and firmer on the standards you are willing to stand for.

It is likely that this ending will free you up for The Right Person for you. And you can always choose to bet with me again 😉

🕒SCENARIO 3: you are still where you were, an “almost relationship”. Then, I will begin to deduce your deposit at the rate of $1000/month. For example, beginning of 2nd month, I’ll keep $1000, 3rd month I’ll keep $2000 till it runs out.

This is to mirror to you that the longer it takes to know where you stand, the more costly it is. Which is true. Both you and the person deserve to know sooner than later that this won’t work out!

HOW I WILL SUPPORT YOU WIN

I’ll hold you all accountable and energized😉

You can count on me for 1) my expertise at crucial moments, where things seem impossible and 2) my presence throughout this often intensely emotional process. 3) laser-focused calls to solve anything that comes up.

You’ll also be invited to an exclusive broadcast channel where I share game-changing insights, hard won wisdom and energetic support. 

YOU’LL MOST LIKELY WIN THIS BET IF 

  • You already have many love experiences, especially good relationships. 
  • You are damn willing to bet on yourself. As William Ury once wrote, Getting to Yes With Yourself first!
  • You have mutual friends who support both of you.
  • You enjoy communicating clearly, verbally or written. 
  • You get that this relationship is your greatest teacher. 
  • You just know that you two are meant together for something much more in life. There is a greater role, a larger purpose to this relationship. 

How much is the bet? 

$5000. 

It will likely go up soon. Because your life, and this particular relationship, is worth betting this much, and much more.
You have a vision for life. They have too. And you can barely imagine what’s possible when you two combine.

NEXT STEP

If you’re interested in making this bet (or have questions about it), DM me on FB. We’ll have a quick chat over Messenger to see if it’s a good fit.

I also encourage you to DM me if you’re not sure that this bet is a good fit for you, but you would still want some support from me in some way. We’ll discuss whether there is an offer I can create for you.

When you send your DM, please include the following information:

  • Current stage of the connection (how long have you met, what have you done together)
  • What is an evidence of privileged access to your The One? (for eg, I have been to their bedroom? read their most private thought?)
  • What outcome are you looking for?
  • What you think is blocking the next step
  • What specifically interests you about this bet (i.e. what specific situations/questions/approaches/ experiences you would like my help with)

MY HAPPIEST WISH FOR YOU

You’ll win the most important relationship. I’ll lose the bet and receive lots of thank you money from you 😘 

AND
Money made from this will go towards my eventual wedding, because I’M BETTING TOO!

❤